Day42 of 365
Day 42 to a better you...
Day 42 to a better me...
Welcome to day 42 of the year! A great day to start your healing journey and create new habits to replace the old ones that don't add to your life!!! Or a great day to continue your healing and reprogramming journey=). Be a part of this journey and let's go through it together.
Affirmation: I AM MY PRIORITY.
Be the one to break the old habits, the old patterns, the misjudgment of yourself, the chains of reaction to get the cue to move from where you are no longer wanting to stay. Be the one to break free from all that has consumed you, chained you down, enslaved, encarcerated you from your own will. Be free and become your priority. And say outloud "I am my priority and I allow myself to be first".
Your parents will not give you what you were born without because they did not get it themselves. So, would they be able to? Let's be honest. It's now your turn to take control of your reality! Take all that guilt, shame, fault, unworthiness into your own hands and replace it with love, acknowledgment, value, worthiness, happiness, joy and give it to yourself. Make sure to give yourself everyday what you didn't receive in the past. Be kind with your gentle inner self and show it how much it means to you and how much it is loved. Take responsibility of your own life, and no one will be able to control it for you.
Putting yourself as priority can be a challenge if you grew up in a toxic environment, or where you had no say at all because only what they say goes, when your opinions did not matter, nor how you felt. And it can be even more difficult when you have people that "depend" on you or are counting on you. But the truth is that if you can't depend on yourself to be happy, you will depend on others to bring that happiness. Do you see the loop here? Will you ever be happy if you do as others who are not happy say? If they are counting on you, they are putting their needs first, and are putting aside yours to get what they need or want. And of course, I'm not saying to condone or allow the habit of being mistreated. Maybe at first your first steps to putting boundaries won't be in the best way...because you are really not learning from zero. You already have limiting beliefs, and past experiences, repeated patterns, deep wounds that hurt when you even begin to touch them. But how did we ever learn to crawl, walk, run, sprint? Was it not in trial and error? Did you not have to drag yourself on the floor (on your belly) while getting the strength, the practice (repeating the motion), the rhythm, and the confidence to get it "right" by defeat and failure?
Be mindful and be kind to yourself and others. Maybe with practice, you will learn to put the bounderies with love and in a more harmonious matter. But for now, put them in the best way that you can. You can think about it all you want, but you won't see any results, until you take action on it.
Your time belongs to you! Your life belongs to you! So act like it. Become the director of your life and always love yourself before others, for you cannot become that which you are not. Be your number one, and others will have no choice but to accept your bounderies, learn to accept them, or leave and not be a part of your reality. In other words, those who do not believe you are important will leave on their own.
Disclaimer: Any similarities to anything you have read, heard, or experienced is mere resemblance. This material is all copyrighted and true to my reality spectrum in a state of flow.
That's it for today. Have a great one! Smile and raise your vibe.
Ve.
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